April 11, 2020 / Weddings
20+ Most Beautiful Hamptons Wedding Venues (Updated for 2023!)
The Hamptons refer to a group of seaside communities near the towns of Southampton and East Hampton, also known as the South Fork of Long Island. Escapes to the Hamptons have long been a summer tradition for people from New York City as it takes around 2 hours from Manhattan to get there by car or train. Montauk, a famous beach resort at the tip of Long Island, is also famous as one of the greatest fishing spots on the East Coast.
The region is also known for being exclusively populated by wealthy New Yorkers, but there are also some great locations to say I do. I have put together this list of the Best Hamptons Wedding Venues as well as the 50 Most Beautiful Wedding Venues on Long Island, I hope it will help you to choose the perfect venue for your wedding.
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Southampton Wedding Venues
Topping Rose House
The Topping Rose House was built back in 1842 and today is an excellent example of the Greek Revival architecture and the braced-frame method of construction. The venue has been reconstructed but the owners managed to preserve its uniqueness.
The Topping Rose House has year-round indoor and outdoor spaces. The rustic barn can accommodate one hundred guests for a cocktail reception. The studio is the largest space at the venue – invite a hundred individuals for a seated dinner or 150 for a cocktail. This room overlooks the pool and has floor-to-ceiling windows. Dining in the Topping Rose House is always a farm-to-table experience. Enjoy the local ingredients in the elegant restaurant. The actual ceremony can be held right in front of the impressive building (the photos will look amazing!).
The venue is the only full-service luxury hotel in the Hamptons. Stay at one of the 22 gorgeous rooms and suites, have a pampering session at the spa, and take advantage of the pool and health facilities. By the way, the area has plenty of attractions to offer – the famous beaches, wineries, biking and hiking trails… You won’t get bored.
Address: 1 Bridgehampton-Sag Harbor Turnpike, Bridgehampton, NY 11932
Phone: (631) 237-1952
Wölffer Estate Vineyard
Wölffer Estate Vineyard is a sophisticated wedding venue located right in the heart of the Hamptons (Sagaponack, New York). The main feature of the place is, of course, 55 acres of beautiful vineyards. The estate has been producing premium wine and spirits since 1988.
Wölffer Estate Vineyard can accommodate up to 175 individuals (a minimum of 50 guests). The actual vineyard is an amazing location for the couple’s photoshoot. The ceremony can be held at the gazebo right in the middle of the vineyards. However, the venue has a lot of other spaces to offer. For example, the Tuscan-style villa can become an amazing backdrop for wedding photos. The tasting room is located on a hilltop – you can enjoy the picturesque views, the walls of French doors, and Mexican scones. If the weather permits, the friends and family members of the couple can proceed to the outdoor terrace. There is also a glass-roof terrace with an impressive interior. The spaces will be customized to your taste.
Address: 139 Sagg Road, Sagaponack, NY 11962
Phone: (631) 537-5106
Bridgehampton Tennis and Surf Club
The Bridgehampton Tennis and Surf Club is surrounded by such natural gems as the Atlantic Ocean, Sam’s Creek, and Mecox Bay. Imagine all the stunning photo opportunities! This private beach club offers over 1.200 feet of waterfront property and is a great option for the couples that dreamed about spending the day right next to the ocean. The venue has indoor spaces as well.
If you choose the Bridgehampton Tennis and Surf Club, you will be able to invite 240 guests. The beach is certainly a magical place for the ceremony where the lovebirds will become husband and wife. After that, you can relocate to the picturesque decks, watch the sunset and, later on, gather around the bonfire. There is a gorgeous ballroom with gigantic windows in the chic clubhouse – a wonderful space for the reception. Enjoy the food prepared by the club’s chefs (you get to choose the catering option) and then everyone can dance all night.
The wedding venue also has a lovely wedding suite. By the way, you can totally book the place for an engagement party, wedding shower or any other special event.
Address: 231 Mid Ocean Drive P.O. Box 747, Bridgehampton, NY 11932
Phone: (212) 883-0606
Oceanbleu is a Hamptons wedding venue located right on the shores of the magnificent Atlantic Ocean. If the weather permits, the couple will have the opportunity to exchange their vows right on the sand.
You can invite up to 220 individuals to become part of the special day. The great news is that there are quite a few spaces to choose from. The ceremony can be held on the private beach. The guests can, later on, enjoy their cocktails and catch up under an elegant tent (with breathtaking views of the ocean). The main indoor space is a wonderful ballroom that has recently been renovated. It features giant windows, luxurious chandeliers, and high ceilings – the room is certainly full of charming photo opportunities.
The couple and their family and friends can stay the night or two – the venue offers cottages and lovely rooms. You can also choose to go for a bonfire right on the beach. During the wedding day, the venue’s team will serve exquisite dishes. By the way, you can even create a unique drink!
Address: 231 Dune Rd, Westhampton Beach, NY 11978
Phone: (631) 288-8878
Southampton History Museum
Southampton History Museum encompasses four venues, two of which offer a unique opportunity to celebrate your wedding day. Located in Southampton, New York, the place preserves and shares the history of the town.
The Rogers Mansion represents a 1.7-acre facility with a historic building, 11 outbuildings, and a great lawn. A cocktail hour and a seated reception can be held in the elegant building that provides you with a Music Room and a large kitchen. The Music Room offers stunning lawn access, where you can set up a 100×30 foot tent for outdoor activities. You can also get your family and friends involved in exploring the past of the property due to the exhibit on the first floor.
The Thomas Halsey Homestead boasts of the picturesque setting formed by a rustic house and a wonderful herb garden behind it that will be a feature of the ceremony. Occupying the territory of 1 acre, the property can host 200 guests with an outdoor experience only. So as to make the couple feel confident at different weather conditions, a 60×40 foot tent is available.
Address: 4911, 17 Meeting House Ln, Southampton, NY 11968
Phone: (631) 283-2494
Southampton Inn is located right next to the main street in a historic Southampton village. It is a year-round venue that offers 5 acres of lush lawns (tented, if you wish), a library, and an elegant ballroom.
The Inn can accommodate up to 400 people. However, there are quite a few spaces that would be great for a more intimate gathering. You also have the opportunity to book 90 charming rooms, in case you and your guests want to stay the night and check out all of the venue’s amenities. Enjoy the tennis court, the heated outdoor pool, and the award-winning restaurant.
Southampton Inn offers different wedding packages for the lovebirds that include chairs, tables, china, glassware, linens, and small floral arrangements (in case you choose to go for the chic ballroom). By the way, during the summer months, the venue provides a shuttle bus to a romantic beach. You can even have a few surfing lessons, book a fishing trip, or enjoy the local museums and wineries – the area has a lot of attractions to offer.
Address: 91 Hill St, Southampton, NY 11968
Phone: (631) 283-6500
Parrish Art Museum
Parish Art Museum was founded back in 1989. Located on 14 acres of meadow, the unique space provides a new way to experience art. The massive construction was inspired by the natural beauty of the region. The museum can now host private events and will certainly become an unexpected, but a stylish choice for your big day.
The wedding venue accommodates up to 300 guests. The couple can choose to use the terrace, lobby, and even the museum’s galleries. The giant 5.800-feet wraparound terrace overlooks the charming vineyards. The lovebirds and their guests can enjoy the sunset and then dance the night away in the structure designed by Herzog & de Meuron. The fabulous interior features a wall of glass, natural 200-year-old wood, and black tinted stained double doors.
Brides Magazine once named the Parish Art Museum one of the ‘buzziest new wedding spots’ in the United States. Of course, you can book the venue for any other private event. The museum and the surrounding landscape offer a pleasant experience all year round.
Address: 279 Montauk Highway, Water Mill, NY 11976
Phone: (631) 283-2118
The Muses is a banquet hall venue, filled with the spirit of chic and luxury. The venue has classic style design, high ceilings, open bright space (thanks to its floor-to-ceiling windows) and offers various options for the configuration of tables and chairs. Here you can hold various types of events, at any time of the year, regardless of the weather, and the well-kept garden and a variety of colors in the landscape will make a great background for photos! The hall can comfortably accommodate up to 350 people. The venue also has an outdoor area, which will be a great place for a ceremony in the fresh air! This spacious territory will be good for your future photos.
You will not be indifferent to the service. There are modern video and audio systems and DJ equipment. The widest range of kitchen choices and the price category of the menu, the service of individual selection of dishes – you can easily choose the best option for you and your guests!
Address: 111 Saint Andrews Road, Southampton, NY 11968
Phone: (631) 500-5566
Southampton Social Club
Southampton Social Club is a fashionable night-life destination. However, the place can also host parties and various events – the venue offers 3.000 square feet of garden space.
Whether you are going for an intimate family gathering or a crazy celebration, you will be able to find a suitable event space in Southampton Social Club. For those who are not ready to book the whole social club, the venue offers an elegant library where the guests can enjoy their cocktails and the VIP stage that can be turned into a roaring nightclub. You might go for the cabana area if you want that extra romantic touch (in such a case, you will also have a private sunset bar at your service).
The venue will provide the tables, chairs, a dance floor, and audio equipment, as well as linens, glassware, and china. The social club’s award-winning executive chef can create a unique menu together with the lovebirds. And the bar will be serving special mixologist crafted cocktails.
Address: 256 Elm St, Southampton, NY 11968
Phone: (631) 287-1400
Salt Drift Farm
Salt Drift Farm is owned by Hamptons Aristocrat and is located in Bridgehampton. The venue features a charming rustic farmhouse and a wonderful garden. Even though the place has a rural vibe to it, this Hamptons wedding venue has everything you are going to need for an unforgettable event – the high-end amenities include an AC, a sound system, and adjustable lighting.
Salt Drift Farm can accommodate up to 140 individuals (if you are going for a standing reception) and 125 guests for a seated dinner. The state-of-the-art cedar farmhouse can become a great backdrop for the actual ceremony. If the weather permits, the cocktail hour can be held in the bohemian flower and herb garden (the photo opts are just stunning). By the way, the venue also offers a true farm-to-table experience.
Address: 203 Bridgehampton-Sag Harbor Turnpike, Bridgehampton, NY 11932
Phone: (631) 383-9617
The Inn Spot On the Bay
Just as the name suggests, the Inn Spot on the Bay offers an incredible waterfront experience. Be amused by the views of the Shinnecock Bay and make sure that everyone takes a memorable photo in front of such an amazing backdrop.
The venue can accommodate up to 250 guests. However, the Inn Spot on the Bay is also suitable for smaller gatherings. The waterfront lawn is a very special place for the actual ceremony. The team can set up an elegant wedding arch or some tents if the weather is not on your side. The indoor space is a charming dining room with high ceilings and French doors. You can also choose to go for an outdoor dining area – the lovely verandah offers magnificent views. The friends and family can choose to spend the night in one of the 13 cozy guest rooms and enjoy a stroll to the ocean beaches in the morning. By the way, the Inn Spot on the Bay has a wedding suite and the team will provide chairs, tables, china, glassware, and linens.
Address: 32 Lighthouse Rd, Hampton Bays, NY 11946
Phone: (631) 728-1200
The Quogue Club
The Quogue Club was built as a simple farmhouse back in 1824. Later on, it became one of Quogue’s first true hotels. Today, you can not only stay in one of the restored suites and enjoy the interior décor designed by the talented Alexa Hampton but also have an unforgettable wedding in this truly historic place.
The venue can accommodate up to 125 guests. If you are going for a grand celebration, then choose between the elegant Dining Room and the beautiful Founders’ Room. For a more intimate gathering, the Quogue Club offers the charming Salon with a working fireplace.
The couple can work together with the chef to create the perfect menu for their special day. Choose from locally sourced meats and seafood and enjoy a true farm-to-table experience. The convenient location is one of the reasons why your friends and family might want to spend the weekend in the elegant inn. Wineries, museums, beaches – all the best things that the Hamptons has to offer are only a short drive away. The Quogue Club has 14 rooms and 2 cottages.
Address: 47 Quogue St, Quogue, NY 11959
Phone: (631) 653-0100
Calissa is an exclusive event venue, located in the Water Mill. The rich experience of conducting and organizing more than 30 years is one of the advantages of this place.
The newlyweds will be offered various options for the venue locations: a lounge space, an urban-style dining room, a covered terrace with an amazing view of the garden or an outdoor patio. Thanks to these options you can choose a variety of backgrounds for your wedding photos! Just imagine, white terrace furniture decorated with designer compositions of flowers or a smooth well-groomed green lawn with a view of the forest! In total, Calissa can accommodate up to 250 guests.
The dishes on the restaurant’s menu were inspired by the cuisine of Mykonos. The wine list has been awarded many awards and includes more than 150 types of wine, as well as premium home-made branded liqueurs and beer.
Address: 1020 Montauk Hwy Water Mill, NY 11976
Phone: (631) 500-9292
East Hampton Wedding Venues
The Roundtree, Amagansett
The Roundtree, Amagansett is an elegant boutique hotel that is surrounded by picturesque farmlands. The venue features brand new spaces, as well as a century-old barn and a 250-year-old cottage!
The place is only a short walk away from the ocean and has enough space for 250 individuals. The Roundtree, Amagansett is a year-round Hamptons wedding venue – you have the chance to enjoy the beauty of every season. A tented wedding can be hosted on the lush lawn. The ceremony takes place under the beautiful trees (the photos will be stunning!). The space is surrounded by country fields that create a lovely atmosphere of privacy and intimacy.
The venue hosts only one celebration per weekend. You can surely stay a night or two in one of the 10 rooms (located in a charming barn) or at one of the five cottages. Amagansett is a small town that has plenty of attractions – your friends and family won’t get bored. The venue features a wonderful wedding suite for getting ready in absolute comfort.
Address: 273 Main St, Amagansett, NY 11930
Phone: (631) 267-3133
The Reform Club
The Reform Club (former The Inn at Windmill Lane) is located in Amagansett. The place offers a few outdoor spaces for your celebration. The Park, for example, can accommodate 200 individuals, while the Sunken Garden can be used for a smaller event (up to 125 guests).
There is also the Common Room that can become a game room for the children and family members. It features two TVs, a dartboard, a pool table, and even a gourmet kitchen. Around 20 guests can enjoy themselves in the game room before or after the ceremony. The Park provides plenty of wonderful photo opportunities. Imagine silver maple trees, vibrant hydrangeas, and walls of roses. These 9.600 feet will be decorated to your taste. The Sunken Garden is a 1.900 square foot space that can be tented. The brickwork and the walls of hydrangeas and lavender will add a special touch to the wedding reception. By the way, you can go for a weekend-long celebration, as the Reform Club has a selection of suites and charming cottages and houses.
Address: 23 Windmill Ln, Amagansett, NY 11930
Phone: (631) 267-8500
The Hedges Inn
The Hedges Inn offers Bed and Breakfast experience and is an exclusive opportunity to spend your wedding day. The site is conveniently located in the heart of East Hampton’s historic district, New York. The history of the property started in 1873 due to John D. Hedges who decided to express his love to his bride.
The facility will fascinate the couples, their family and friends with a breathtaking setting of manicured grounds, a garden, and a beautiful Inn overlooking a village pond. The tranquil ambiance of the place is complemented by seaside charm, along with salty sea air. The building provides you and your guests with 13 intimate bedrooms with all modern amenities, a living room, den, and bar. You will be pleased with the peaceful open-air space that encompasses a living room, hammocks, chaise lounge chairs, and a white sandy beach that is just a few minutes from the venue.
The welcoming staff of the Hedges Inn ensures an attentive attitude to each aspect of the day. You are granted immaculate accommodation that is well maintained by the professional team.
Address: 74 James Ln, East Hampton, NY 11937
Phone: (631) 324-7101
Montauk Wedding Venues
Gurney’s Montauk Resort & Seawater Spa
Gurney’s Montauk Resort & Seawater Spa is a year-round resort with mind-blowing ocean views and a private 2.000-foot beach. The property was founded back in 1926 and managed to become a real Hamptons’ icon throughout the years.
Gurney’s Montauk Resort & Seawater Spa can accommodate up to 220 individuals. The East Deck is a wonderful place for the ceremony. The lovebirds can exchange their vows and have a dramatic ocean view as their backdrop. However, the property also offers plenty of other event spaces (over 25.000 square feet!). You can choose the Regent Cocktail club or the Top Deck for your wedding reception. Later on, the newlyweds and their guests can enjoy dinner in the banquet room that is subdivided into three rooms.
You can certainly go for a weekend-long celebration – the resort features 146 suites, rooms, and lovely beachfront cottages. By the way, you can take advantage of the venue’s wedding suite. Moreover, the team will be providing the chairs, tables, glassware, china, and linens. The couple can work with the chef to craft a unique menu for their special day.
Address: 290 Old Montauk Highway, Montauk, NY 11954
Phone: (631) 668-2345
Gurney’s Star Island
Gurney’s Star Island is located on the picturesque Lake Montauk. It is the Hamptons’ premier travel destination. However, if you decide to choose this venue for your special day, the celebration can be as casual or as formal as you wish.
The resort accommodates up to a thousand guests. You can go for a lovely ceremony on the Grand Lawn. The space has incredible views of the beach and can be tented. The elegant Waterfront Ballroom is the biggest indoor space that provides amazing water views and looks extremely beautiful during the sunset. If you prefer a more intimate format, then go for the Pool Club or the Showfish Restaurant. The Firepit will become a charming location for your wedding cocktail reception. The guests can enjoy a drink or two on an outdoor patio and gather around the fire whenever they feel like it.
The couple can get ready in a luxurious wedding suite that offers wonderful photo opportunities. The venue provides accommodation and if you have quite a few people staying, you might opt for a room block.
Address: 32 Star Island Road, Montauk, NY 11954
Phone: (631) 668-3100
Solé East Resort
Solé East Resort is a dreamy getaway with lovely sceneries located in Montauk. It will take you only 5 minutes to get to the beach from the hotel that is housed in a spectacular American Tudor building.
The couple can invite up to 250 guests. Moreover, the venue has plenty of outdoor and indoor spaces to offer for your special day. A luxurious indoor ceremony can be held in the actual hotel. If the weather permits, the couple may opt for an outdoor celebration in the wonderful garden (tents can be provided). For that extra special touch, everyone can gather around the fire pit after the sun goes down (don’t forget about the smores kit). By the way, a chocolate fountain is also available upon your request.
You can totally go for a weekend-long celebration with Solé East Resort. The pet-friendly place offers 60 bungalow-like rooms and 7 extraordinary garden cabana suites. Moreover, the guests can enjoy the heated pool, massage, yoga sessions, outdoor movie screening, and plenty of other activities. A wedding suite is available for getting ready in a hassle-free environment.
Address: 90 2ns House Road, Montauk, NY 11954
Phone: (631) 668-2105
360 East at Montauk Downs
360° East at Montauk Downs offers amazing views that are hard to beat. The award-winning venue has panoramic views of Montauk Lake, the seaside, and even a stunning 18-hole golf course. Choose one of the three spectacular locations for your ceremony – atop the Montauk Bluffs, right on the beach, or at the base of a historic lighthouse! You will certainly have some unique photos of your wedding day.
The venue can accommodate up to 220 for a seated dinner and 350 guests, in case you are going for a cocktail party only. Bear in mind that the outdoor spaces are not covered. The indoor event space features floor-to-ceiling windows, chandeliers, a wrap-around patio, and even a lovely stone fireplace.
360° East at Montauk Downs has no on-site accommodations, but the venue does offer a dressing area for the wedding couple. The team will provide all the necessary tables, chairs, silverware, linens, glassware, and even votive candles. A ceremony arch is available upon your request.
Address: 50 South Fairview Avenue, Montauk, NY 11954
Navy Beach is a wonderful beachfront restaurant located in Montauk. It offers a 200-foot private beach and amazing views of Fort Pond Bay and Gardiner’s Island. The space can be used to host a wide range of private events, from wedding showers to wedding ceremonies.
The venue can accommodate up to 180 guests. The couples that dreamed about a beach wedding have a chance to exchange their vows on a picturesque beach covered with pebbles (a marquee can be assembled). The waterfront restaurant is a great space for the reception. Enjoy the nautical décor, exposed wood beams, and some of the best sunsets in the area. There is also an outdoor seating area offered by the restaurant for the couples that want to have their reception outside. The 35-foot long bar is the place where the guests can have a cocktail or two.
The Navy Beach team is ready to offer a collection of fresh seafood dishes for your big day. The chairs, tables, china, flatware, and glassware are provided by the venue. Upon your request, the staff can set up a dance floor.
Address: 16 Navy Road, Montauk, NY 11954
Phone: (631) 668-6868